Thursday, February 27, 2014
Many Mansions of Christ International: Do Something.........Please
Many Mansions of Christ International: Do Something.........Please: There’s a song I love on Christian radio that has a story behind it about a college aged girl who went to Uganda on a missio...
Do Something.........Please
There’s a song I love on Christian radio that has a story
behind it about a college aged girl who went to Uganda on a mission trip and ended up
staying because she saw a need and felt God’s calling on her life to do
something about it. Hence the name of the song. If you would like to see her
story and hear the song here is the link to Matthew West’s website.
http://matthewwest.com/the-stories/the-story-do-something/
The Lyrics they are here:
Matthew
West-Do Something
"Do
Something"
I
woke up this morning
Saw
a world full of trouble now
Thought,
how’d we ever get so far down
How’s
it ever gonna turn around
So
I turned my eyes to Heaven
I
thought, “God, why don’t You do something?”
Well,
I just couldn’t bear the thought of
People
living in poverty
Children
sold into slavery
The
thought disgusted me
So,
I shook my fist at Heaven
Said,
“God, why don’t You do something?”
He
said, “I did, I created you”
(chorus)
If not us, then who
If
not me and you
Right
now, it’s time for us to do something
If
not now, then when
Will
we see an end
To
all this pain
It’s
not enough to do nothing
It’s
time for us to do something
I’m
so tired of talking
About
how we are God’s hands and feet
But
it’s easier to say than to be
Live
like angels of apathy who tell ourselves
It’s
alright, “somebody else will do something”
Well,
I don’t know about you
But
I’m sick and tired of life with no desire
I
don’t want a flame, I want a fire
I
wanna be the one who stands up and says,
“I’m
gonna do something”
Chorus
We
are the salt of the earth
We
are a city on a hill (shine shine, shine shine)
But
we’re never gonna change the world
By
standing still
No
we won’t stand still
No
we won’t stand still
No
we won’t stand still
If
not us, then who
If
not me and you
Right
now, it’s time for us to do something
If
not now, then when
Will
we see an end
To
all this pain
It’s
not enough to do nothing
It’s
time for us to do something [x3]
All my
life I have seen and had a deep compassion in my heart for those in the world
who were less fortunate or suffering. As a child my mother would tell me to
finish all the food on my plate “because there are starving children in
Africa”. I would dutifully eat every last morsel. Or she would make me stay
there till I did. I felt bad for those hungry kids because right before supper
time I would be soooooo hungry and my mom would NOT give in to my dramatic
pleas for a snack to tide me over. It would “ruin my appetite” she said. Of
course she was right. I would have
left something on my plate for the sake of the African children if I were
allowed to though. But how would we get what was left all the way to Africa? And ewe! would they even want it by the time it arrived there? I actually
pondered this stuff as a kid.
I was
educated in Catholic schools most of my school years and from an early age I
attended Catechism classes every Monday night (7pm sharp- some things ya never
forget). We learned about caring for others. We cleaned houses owned by the
elderly in our church. We organized street clean up days. We studied handouts
about mission work in the world and caring for the sick. (I became a nurse in
1990). In school we would have in-services where we would gather in the musty basement
of the school, sit cross-legged on the floor and watch hours (it seemed) of
reel-to-reel movies of Mother Theresa caring for the Lepers in Bangladesh. I
understood human suffering at 6 years old. It’s the age I remember feeling
compassion in my heart. I didn’t understand what Leprosy was until later but
even at a young age I knew it was my duty to also DO SOMETHING.
Now I
am older. I still eat everything off my plate, much to my defeat in ‘successful
dieting’. (Thanks a lot mom!) I
spent 17 years as a Licensed Practical Nurse. Most of those years I worked in
Geriatric nursing but later as a Hospice Nurse. In those years, I was diagnosed
with 2 autoimmune diseases, each of which there is no known cause and no known
cure. First it was Rheumatoid Arthritis and then 10 years later Systemic Lupus.
I worked for years as a nurse who relieved the suffering of others WHILE I was
suffering myself. In 2004 I was diagnosed Stage 3 Lupus Nephritis (kidney
failure). I was forced to give up my beloved career helping others. I didn’t
know it then but God had way better plans for me.
In the
first years of not working it was difficult and lonely. I was a full time sick person. It was
my ‘job’ now to get to all my doctor and physical therapy appointments (I had
SEVEN specialists caring for me altogether) and to keep track of 18 medications
a day and several injections a month. The pharmacists knew me well. In between
all that I was pretty much in bed. Both diseases cause extreme fatigue and
excruciating joint and muscle pain.
I would
spend most my time watching television or being online. I would read and study my
Bible, something as a working mother, wife and nurse I admit I didn’t have time
to do but I missed. God gave me all the time in the world now. I became a
member at a Christian website and started meeting people from all over the
world. I had seen on the news the suffering of people in other countries, but
now I was actually talking to the very people who lived it. My compassionate
nature was once again sparked. I needed to DO SOMETHING.
I met
my first Ugandan in 2009, 5 years into my new career as a full time sick
person. He was a young man working in an internet café who was an orphan and
also had Polio since age 6. He was the most sincere, humble, respectful person
I’d met. He was good and kind and though struggling to survive himself told me
that one day he wanted to help poor children from his village. I thought to
myself, “but you ARE the poor child from your village!” He saw it differently.
He had a job. No decent shoes, or a bed, but he was thankful he had a job. I
bought him shoes and a bed and an Internet Cafe of his own. I did more for
others there and in neighboring Kenya as I could.
It is
now 2014. Since then, I have met so many people around the world. A lot in under-developed and oppressed nations. The Internet has
made the world not so big anymore. I feel the pain and fear in the words
written to me by my friends around the world on my Facebook messenger or
Christian websites. I see the news
stories almost as soon as they happen; Rape being used as
weapon of war in the Congo; Corrupted and ruthless dictators (North Korea);
People fighting for freedom from tyranny and dying in the streets (Libya,
Egypt, Ukraine, Ivory Coast). My heart cries. There are SO many stories of
suffering. So many battles of need. So many inhumane injustices uncorrected.
HIV/AIDS (period) Sooooo, sooooo many orphans. Children working all day in
brick-making yards, sold into slavery for a $100 debt made to a cruel man by
the parents before they were born. The needs in the world are overwhelming.
Which brings me back to Matthew West’s song and the girl who stayed to help in
Uganda.
“If not
me and you, then who? If not now, then when?” In all my years of Catechism
classes, Mother Theresa documentaries and reading my Bible did I ever think
that it was all up to just God. I
knew as a Christian and a human being that it was up to ME. I am grateful for so many who know
this too and give money or time and efforts to help our fellow men, women and
children in the world. But I say to anyone who may be reading, that if you see
something wrong in this world, you can react. Don’t think ‘I can never do
enough so I just wont do anything’. “It’s not enough to do nothing” Matthew
sings. Or ‘how can I trust my money to a person or organization when I don’t
REALLY know they are legit’. Find out if they are. Please have discernment not
apathy.
Mother
Theresa said “If you cannot feed the masses, feed just one”. Please. If only
everyone fed just one. There are 7 billion people on our planet. It produces
enough food to feed all 7 billion. There are 2.6 million children who DIE every
year from hunger related illnesses. Please. We are never going to change the
world by standing still. I want to always be one who stands up and says I can
do something. No matter how little I have to share, I still have more than
someone else. In 2013, even with 2 incurable diseases and not much extra money
after my plane ticket cost, I had the privilege to go to Uganda East Africa. I
saw. I went. I helped. I am going back.
PLEASE......... IT’S TIME........ DO SOMETHING.........
No
we won’t stand still
No
we won’t stand still
No
we won’t stand still
If
not us, then who
If
not me and you
Right
now, it’s time for us to do something
If
not now, then when
Will
we see an end
To
all this pain
It’s
not enough to do nothing
It’s
time for us to do something
Note: If anyone wants to do
something and is not sure where or how, I can recommend a list of organizations,
churches and individuals in various countries ( Kenya, Uganda, Pakistan, DRC, Ghana, Burundi and India) that I have known personally and
can verify they are doing great things to help others!
Thanks!
Cheryl Derby- Co-founder and Co-director of Many Mansions of Christ International-Uganda
Wednesday, January 22, 2014
Many Mansions of Christ International: Flowers in Uganda
Many Mansions of Christ International: Flowers in Uganda: Mother Theresa- "How can there be too many children? That is like saying there are too many flowers" Number of orphans in Uganda...
Flowers in Uganda
Mother Theresa- "How can there be too many children? That is like saying there are too many flowers"
Number of orphans in Uganda-2,500,000
That's a lot of flowers!
Before I went to Uganda for the first time in September 2013, I used to worry about how would I deal with what I saw there. Especially the kids. I'm a big softy when it comes to kids. I'm a kid magnet; the one at any gathering with the most kids near me. I couldn't imagine what 2.5 million orphans looked like. I've seen those TV commercials. You know the ones.....Was I ready for it?
I was sure that I wanted to go. Also very sure that all my years spent in Catholic school watching movies of Mother Theresa caring for lepers in Bangladesh had sparked a compassion in me to help people somewhere in the world. Uganda happened to choose me first.
I had known several Ugandans a full five years before going and knew some of the harsh realities of life there. The median monthly wage is 56,000 Uganda Shillings, about $23. The total fertility rate per woman-6.2 children. Infant morality rate-54 per 1000 live births. Even more sad, the under 5 mortality, 90 per 1000. Mostly due to TREATABLE diseases like Malaria and Typhoid, and from symptoms of Pneumonia, Diarrhea and Malnutrition.
Some sobering facts worldwide about child survival:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_survival
HIV/AIDS. 7.2 % of Uganda's population is living with HIV. (UNAIDS 2012). Not only have children lost one or both parents to this killer but many are born infected themselves. Sadly I could not find a single statistic on how many children in Uganda are HIV positive. Some flowers grow un-noticed in villages.
Having known about Uganda before going, I thought I knew some of what I would experience once there. However very soon into my stay my worst fears turned into pleasant surprises. My first experiences with the "flowers" came when we walked to town. The young children, not yet school aged, would spot me and run closer for a better view and shout "hi Muzungu!" I couldn't believe how anything so tiny could even speak a big word like muzungu. I think they're taught it very early on in their lingustic careers. Most were dressed in torn dirty clothes but wearing huge smiles.
I think teachers must have resented me because if we walked past a school with younger aged kids they would see me and all leave their desks and run to doorway to hang out of it calling hi muzungu! But if I could thank these teachers I would because the little bit older kids would ask me in perfect English "how aaah you?" and give me clear "I'm fine's" when I returned the question. I appreciated that!
Almost immediately I realized the sheer number of kids. Early in the morning I could hear them before I saw them. They would walk past my house on their way to school, marching happily by in their colorful uniforms: each school having their own colors. What a beautiful garden of flowers!
We visited kids at their homes and schools and they visited us at our home. At school they're well mannered and polite and at their homes happy and carefree. These kids have daily chores to do but have plenty of play time too when out of school. Having a muzungu come visit is a big deal. At my first home visit the kids wanted to hold my hands, trying to rub the white off me. When they came to our Saturday Bible studies, they were happy, attentive and involved.
One of the two flowers I know who is HIV positive attends our Bible study. He is a happy, loving, well adjusted child. Not at all like the way the TV commercials portray. As he sat on my lap, content to just be there, I thought about his situation. About his future in this difficult country. But instead of trying to figure out a solution I just simply lived in that moment. There is much to learn from the vitality, grace and courage of the people here.
I've been told I've not yet seen "real poverty" in Uganda. I'm going back soon and this time will go deep into the village. I kind of already know the beautiful bouquets I'll find there. I've realized that this muzungu who thought she was going to Uganda to help people was instead helped herself. I learned that amidst the weeds of poverty and disease in this land of stark contrasts between joy and sorrow, hardships and happiness, filth and beauty, lies a future of beautiful, grand flowers able to make this world brighter. They don't need me to save them, just to be the voice that could get them the 'water' they need.
If you'd like to make a donation to MMOCI-Uganda please see the donations page at http://manymansions11.wix.com/many-mansions-11
Number of orphans in Uganda-2,500,000
That's a lot of flowers!
Before I went to Uganda for the first time in September 2013, I used to worry about how would I deal with what I saw there. Especially the kids. I'm a big softy when it comes to kids. I'm a kid magnet; the one at any gathering with the most kids near me. I couldn't imagine what 2.5 million orphans looked like. I've seen those TV commercials. You know the ones.....Was I ready for it?
I was sure that I wanted to go. Also very sure that all my years spent in Catholic school watching movies of Mother Theresa caring for lepers in Bangladesh had sparked a compassion in me to help people somewhere in the world. Uganda happened to choose me first.
I had known several Ugandans a full five years before going and knew some of the harsh realities of life there. The median monthly wage is 56,000 Uganda Shillings, about $23. The total fertility rate per woman-6.2 children. Infant morality rate-54 per 1000 live births. Even more sad, the under 5 mortality, 90 per 1000. Mostly due to TREATABLE diseases like Malaria and Typhoid, and from symptoms of Pneumonia, Diarrhea and Malnutrition.
Some sobering facts worldwide about child survival:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_survival
HIV/AIDS. 7.2 % of Uganda's population is living with HIV. (UNAIDS 2012). Not only have children lost one or both parents to this killer but many are born infected themselves. Sadly I could not find a single statistic on how many children in Uganda are HIV positive. Some flowers grow un-noticed in villages.
Having known about Uganda before going, I thought I knew some of what I would experience once there. However very soon into my stay my worst fears turned into pleasant surprises. My first experiences with the "flowers" came when we walked to town. The young children, not yet school aged, would spot me and run closer for a better view and shout "hi Muzungu!" I couldn't believe how anything so tiny could even speak a big word like muzungu. I think they're taught it very early on in their lingustic careers. Most were dressed in torn dirty clothes but wearing huge smiles.
I think teachers must have resented me because if we walked past a school with younger aged kids they would see me and all leave their desks and run to doorway to hang out of it calling hi muzungu! But if I could thank these teachers I would because the little bit older kids would ask me in perfect English "how aaah you?" and give me clear "I'm fine's" when I returned the question. I appreciated that!
Almost immediately I realized the sheer number of kids. Early in the morning I could hear them before I saw them. They would walk past my house on their way to school, marching happily by in their colorful uniforms: each school having their own colors. What a beautiful garden of flowers!
We visited kids at their homes and schools and they visited us at our home. At school they're well mannered and polite and at their homes happy and carefree. These kids have daily chores to do but have plenty of play time too when out of school. Having a muzungu come visit is a big deal. At my first home visit the kids wanted to hold my hands, trying to rub the white off me. When they came to our Saturday Bible studies, they were happy, attentive and involved.
One of the two flowers I know who is HIV positive attends our Bible study. He is a happy, loving, well adjusted child. Not at all like the way the TV commercials portray. As he sat on my lap, content to just be there, I thought about his situation. About his future in this difficult country. But instead of trying to figure out a solution I just simply lived in that moment. There is much to learn from the vitality, grace and courage of the people here.
I've been told I've not yet seen "real poverty" in Uganda. I'm going back soon and this time will go deep into the village. I kind of already know the beautiful bouquets I'll find there. I've realized that this muzungu who thought she was going to Uganda to help people was instead helped herself. I learned that amidst the weeds of poverty and disease in this land of stark contrasts between joy and sorrow, hardships and happiness, filth and beauty, lies a future of beautiful, grand flowers able to make this world brighter. They don't need me to save them, just to be the voice that could get them the 'water' they need.
If you'd like to make a donation to MMOCI-Uganda please see the donations page at http://manymansions11.wix.com/many-mansions-11
Wednesday, January 15, 2014
MMOCI End of year-2013-Final report
END OF YEAR 2013 REPORT FROM THE DIRECTOR MMOCI
Dear Friends,
Thank the lord God for protecting you from 2013 to 2014.
This report contains the activities done in the year 2013, the challenges and the future plans.
ACTIVITIES
In the month of June, MMOCI members conducted a meeting in which the organization was officially formulated together with the constitution.
Board members were also elected and registration as an NGO commenced. Various local leaders were consulted and they recommended MMOCI for registration.
In July a needs assesment was carried out around Mityana Town council and in Soroti. We realised there were so many kids who were not reached by both the government and other NGOs. We first identified about five children to start with. Some had health complications, some abandoned and some in absolute poverty.Their profiles were documented and attached to MMOCI website and linked to MMOCI facebook page for potential financial sponsors.
In August two houses were rented, one for the crisis centre and the other for the office/residential dwelling for MMOCI Directors.
The crisis centre house until now was used short-term by vulnerable youth who may have had no where otherwise to sleep.
In September 2013 MMOCI board received Cheryl Derby, funding partner and co-director of MMOCI from the United States. During her time she contributed alot to the advancement of the organizaton. She was able to meet the board and the volunteers, met suffering children and helped them financially and spiritually, helped with paper work and especially with creating the website and facebook page. Even though she was let down many times with her health, she was very strong and bold to complete her objectives here.
October was a month of business and alot was achieved. The beds and cribs were purchased for the crisis centre, water drums were also purchased and food and supplies for the centre. We also repaired a bicycle for transport purposes.
On the 9th October, we celebrated Uganda Independence Day together with Cheryl Derby, the board members and other youth. In mid October we also visited various schools to evangelise children and also made visits in some homes with vulnerable children.
Bible studies were also started in the month of October. Children still convene every Saturday at the MMOCI offices for Bible learning.
We also contributed partial tuition fees to a vulnerable student in Busitema University and again at the end of October is when we initated a program of feeding some hungry kids and youth who visited the MMOCI centre weekly.
November is when we completed all the government requirements and successfully filed our papers with the NGO Board for the certificate of registration as an international NGO.
In early December, MMOCI partner and Co Director Cheryl Derby was in preparations to travel back to the States and she left Uganda on the 9th December 2013.
On December 21st, MMOCI held a Kid's Christmas party and it was attended by over 23 children. They were fed, entertained and evangelised.
CHALLENGES
Transport was and is still a challenge, we dont have any car to take us around for the ministry.
Sickness let us down too especially Cheryl Derby who was down many times
Lack of funds; in total we received around $800 for the year and yet we had alot to do.
FUTURE PLANS
We really need around $3000 to initiate income generating projects like poultry and livestock projects so that we can boost up the organization and fund our own activities. Also for transportation in 2014.
We can generate around $10,000 annually from the above mentioned projects. Therefore we call upon support from any partners, friends, or well wishers to contribute something small to this start up capital. Remember, anything can do something, including $5 or $10! Profits from income-generating projects will go toward improving the lives of these suffering children with education fees, accomodation, clothing and food. It will also help cover and maintain administrative costs like housing and necessities of staff and volunteers.
2013 was the year of MMOCI birth and hence alot was achieved alongside a few challenges. I'd like to take this opportunity to appreciate all those who donated at least something to help the organization take a step forward. May God bless Brian Derby and his family, Michelle, Nanette, Rick, Marcia and Colleen for their gifts. Also God bless and thanks to those who were willing to give their time for the organization in any way they did. We also thank all those who gave us 825 likes on Facebook! Your 'like' is a voice to a suffering child and if each member contributed just $5, can you imagine that it would be more than $4000!
God bless you all and welcome to 2014!
Okumu Stephen
Co Director MMOCI
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Rest, recuperation, reflections and regrouping.......missionary life in Uganda
Happy new year everyone!
Well, a few things have changed since the last post. I got very sick in November and by the end of the month had to make a heartwrenching decision. I had planned on extending my visa three more months however my body made other plans. I lost 50 pounds in about 60 days due to illness. As I lay awake in bed one night feeling dreadfully awful from my second go round with Malaria, starving, completely dehydrated, weak, nauseous, and with a pounding headache, fever and chills, I prayed to God and asked Him what I should do?
First let me say, for the sake of anyone reading this who is considering long-term missionary work, Africa is not for the faint of heart. Its tough. Its a different way of living than an average convenient, neat and tidy western life. Its difficult. You may think you're healthy, strong (mentally and physically) and capable, like I did but it will challenge you. It will change you. And hopefully like me, you will fall in love with it and still want to be there!
Food there is not like what you're used to. Just about everyone can alter their diet for a short amount of time. It can even be exciting to try new things and eat like the locals. For awhile. There is an abundance of fresh fruits and vegetables in Uganda and they're reasonably priced. Pineapples are $1 each. About twenty tomatoes are $1 as well. Meat and chicken are available. Pork is $2.50/kg and beef $3.50/kg. Supermarkes have pasta, crackers, cereal and even some canned goods like tomato paste and jarred goods like jam. If you have a fridge to store it there's boxed milk and even yogurt.
I didn't have a refrigerator or oven ( I was planning to buy them soon if I had stayed), but I was eating healthy for the first time in my life! Dinner could be greens cooked up on a hot plate or over a charcoal stove with peppers, tomatoes and onions served over rice. Or beans with rice or posho (corn flour mixed into boiling water to make a thick paste-like consistency). Beans are good for ya right? We learn that in our food pyramid in third grade. I'd have meat mixed with veggies. Sweet potatoes. Eggplant. Pumpkin."Vegetables are good for ya, eat more of those". Despite seeing meat hanging outside in the hot sunshine, I was game to try it. I just cooked it so long it was unidentifiable.
I wasn't starting the day with a huge cup of java with 3 Splendas and more half n half than coffee. My arteries must have been thanking me. Hot tea with a little sugar. Breakfast was pineapple and a banana. An orange. Fruits are at the top of the pyramid too! No eggs, bacon, hash browns and toast first thing in the morning for me. Though eggs are there but they're brown with whitish-yellow yolks and right from the chicken, no processing plants here to check, sort and clean them.
But boy, I was doing good! Between my great diet and lots of walking the red-dirt-hilly roads, I was losing weight and feeling and looking great!...... For about a month. That's when the digestive problems started. That's when the first Malaria hit.That's when the weight lost sped up to almost a pound a DAY. That's when hunger pains started. That's when I couldn't eat like a local anymore. That's when I started dreaming about food. My food. Western style food.What I was missing like milk and cheese. Tim Horton's mocha latte. Burgers. Fries. Casseroles. Gravy. Nothing at all with a vegetable in it! I layed awake night after night playing the game in my head called "if I could eat anything I wanted right now what would it be". I think its how I survived.
So after days and days of malaria, starvation and now laying in bed unable to take much more, I asked God what to do. My plane was due to leave in nine days. He clearly told me "go home". The next morning I was lying in a clinic bed on IV fluids and the next day after that my B/P was only 80/40. I. Was. So. Sick. After more malaria treatments, antibiotics and steroids for an upper respiratory infection, pain medicine for the headache and fever, more IV fluids and lots of iron to replenish my nearly nonexistent red blood cells, I started a slow recovery to get myself able to fly 26 hours home. I made it. I survived Africa.
Let me say this: Since being home, and even before I left, we formulated a plan that when I return, we will have a refrigerator and I will be bringing back American food with me. I will be supplementing my unhealthy but familiar foods with the super healthy pyramid chart/Ugandan foods. After I get dewormed and deparasited I will maybe think about eating meat there. Maybe stick to canned meat only. Live and learn. That's why too I needed to come back to the U.S. To reflect on what I just lived through and how to manage life in Africa more efficiently. I AM going back there! I'm regaining my courage, resting up, getting strong again, mentally regrouping, and thinking up new strategies for moving Many Mansions of Christ International forward in 2014!
Well, a few things have changed since the last post. I got very sick in November and by the end of the month had to make a heartwrenching decision. I had planned on extending my visa three more months however my body made other plans. I lost 50 pounds in about 60 days due to illness. As I lay awake in bed one night feeling dreadfully awful from my second go round with Malaria, starving, completely dehydrated, weak, nauseous, and with a pounding headache, fever and chills, I prayed to God and asked Him what I should do?
First let me say, for the sake of anyone reading this who is considering long-term missionary work, Africa is not for the faint of heart. Its tough. Its a different way of living than an average convenient, neat and tidy western life. Its difficult. You may think you're healthy, strong (mentally and physically) and capable, like I did but it will challenge you. It will change you. And hopefully like me, you will fall in love with it and still want to be there!
Food there is not like what you're used to. Just about everyone can alter their diet for a short amount of time. It can even be exciting to try new things and eat like the locals. For awhile. There is an abundance of fresh fruits and vegetables in Uganda and they're reasonably priced. Pineapples are $1 each. About twenty tomatoes are $1 as well. Meat and chicken are available. Pork is $2.50/kg and beef $3.50/kg. Supermarkes have pasta, crackers, cereal and even some canned goods like tomato paste and jarred goods like jam. If you have a fridge to store it there's boxed milk and even yogurt.
I didn't have a refrigerator or oven ( I was planning to buy them soon if I had stayed), but I was eating healthy for the first time in my life! Dinner could be greens cooked up on a hot plate or over a charcoal stove with peppers, tomatoes and onions served over rice. Or beans with rice or posho (corn flour mixed into boiling water to make a thick paste-like consistency). Beans are good for ya right? We learn that in our food pyramid in third grade. I'd have meat mixed with veggies. Sweet potatoes. Eggplant. Pumpkin."Vegetables are good for ya, eat more of those". Despite seeing meat hanging outside in the hot sunshine, I was game to try it. I just cooked it so long it was unidentifiable.
I wasn't starting the day with a huge cup of java with 3 Splendas and more half n half than coffee. My arteries must have been thanking me. Hot tea with a little sugar. Breakfast was pineapple and a banana. An orange. Fruits are at the top of the pyramid too! No eggs, bacon, hash browns and toast first thing in the morning for me. Though eggs are there but they're brown with whitish-yellow yolks and right from the chicken, no processing plants here to check, sort and clean them.
But boy, I was doing good! Between my great diet and lots of walking the red-dirt-hilly roads, I was losing weight and feeling and looking great!...... For about a month. That's when the digestive problems started. That's when the first Malaria hit.That's when the weight lost sped up to almost a pound a DAY. That's when hunger pains started. That's when I couldn't eat like a local anymore. That's when I started dreaming about food. My food. Western style food.What I was missing like milk and cheese. Tim Horton's mocha latte. Burgers. Fries. Casseroles. Gravy. Nothing at all with a vegetable in it! I layed awake night after night playing the game in my head called "if I could eat anything I wanted right now what would it be". I think its how I survived.
So after days and days of malaria, starvation and now laying in bed unable to take much more, I asked God what to do. My plane was due to leave in nine days. He clearly told me "go home". The next morning I was lying in a clinic bed on IV fluids and the next day after that my B/P was only 80/40. I. Was. So. Sick. After more malaria treatments, antibiotics and steroids for an upper respiratory infection, pain medicine for the headache and fever, more IV fluids and lots of iron to replenish my nearly nonexistent red blood cells, I started a slow recovery to get myself able to fly 26 hours home. I made it. I survived Africa.
Let me say this: Since being home, and even before I left, we formulated a plan that when I return, we will have a refrigerator and I will be bringing back American food with me. I will be supplementing my unhealthy but familiar foods with the super healthy pyramid chart/Ugandan foods. After I get dewormed and deparasited I will maybe think about eating meat there. Maybe stick to canned meat only. Live and learn. That's why too I needed to come back to the U.S. To reflect on what I just lived through and how to manage life in Africa more efficiently. I AM going back there! I'm regaining my courage, resting up, getting strong again, mentally regrouping, and thinking up new strategies for moving Many Mansions of Christ International forward in 2014!
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Many Mansions of Christ International Year end report
MANY MANSIONS OF CHRIST INTERNATIONAL
End of year
report
Hi
everyone! Greetings from Mityana Uganda East Africa! Right now the weather is
sunny and around 82F as I write this near the end of November 2013. It’s
nearing the end of the rainy season in which pretty much every day since the
end of September it has rained. When it rains in Uganda it really comes down
hard. You can hardly believe so much rain could fall out of the sky so fast and
so much. With the rain has come cooler days and nights and really, I haven’t
minded. When I first arrived in September it was pretty hot. I hear come
January I will know the real meaning of hot (living near the equator).
Since
getting here, Stephen and I have had some challenges to over come regarding the
NGO registration. Time wise it’s been a very slow process. But despite that and
my being sick 4 straight weeks with various aliments ending with Malaria, we
did manage to complete the final paperwork process. Just today the paperwork
was successfully filed and we are to check back around January 20th
for the final approval! Praise God! Please stand in praise with us for success
in registering MMOCI! God has begun a good work in us! I can’t wait to officially
start taking in kids.
In
the meantime we have been helping those less fortunate in small ways like with
some school fees, small monetary gifts and feeding those who come hungry.
However it’s not nearly enough compared to the numbers of people still needing
our help. If you think a $20 donation won’t go far, let me tell you, it goes
VERY far here. It can feed a family of four for 2 weeks. A huge 50 kg bag of
corn flour would cost about $52 and would make posho every day for a family
here for a month. We would like to work on buying staple foods and giving it
out to those who come to the door saying they’re hungry.
To be able to give a bag of rice or beans or a
kilo of corn flour or a dozen eggs or a loaf of bread to them would help so
much. We also would like to stock up on baby formula and other baby/child
items. Anything from clothes to lotions and diapers. Many kids here own one
pair of clothes and they are pretty torn and tattered. Just to give a kid a new
clean shirt, a pair of shoes, even flip flops cuz some have nothing, and a nice
pair of shorts or trousers would make them feel so good.
Just
showing a child here love, concern and care is a big thing. Some of these kids
have never been hugged. Some work before school in the morning doing chores and
fetching water, only to sit in school til late in the day, walk home, eat, do
homework by kerosene light and start over the next day. Life is hard in Africa.
Survival is the order of the day. The rains make it all the more hard because
the red dirt of Africa becomes orange mud everywhere. Yet life has to go on.
The work of the day must continue.
Clothes are washed by hand and water is hard
to find. Food is prepared over charcoal stoves which trust me takes time and
it’s messy. There’s no fridges so food must be bought daily (or every few days
at the least) from the markets in town or the roadside stands. Fresh milk needs
boiled. Most meals contain tomatoes, peppers and onions but pumpkin, carrots,
eggplant, bananas and greens are common foods. Beans and posho, (corn flour
made into a thick paste-like substance) are a staple. Meat is consumed less but
its available in plenty. Especially pork. It all takes time to prepare. ( 3
times a day if you’re a blessed family).
So
now it’s nearing the end of the year and with Christmas right around the corner
we felt to write a letter to inform our friends and family where we are, what
we’re doing and our future (near) plans. Many Mansions of Christ Intl. has a
house rented and now equipped with 2 baby cribs which each hold two babies and
two 3-tier bunk beds for older kids. The house has running water and a flush
toilet and indoor kitchen. It is in a gated compound. Our intentions are not to
have an orphanage where kids come and live forever, but an interim housing
solution for when the local authorities are left with a homeless or abandoned
child. Mothers die giving birth here and often the hospitals look to police and
welfare agencies to take these innocent newborn babies.
We
would like to provide a safe home, with clean beds and plenty of food, water,
formula, love and care for these vulnerable kids. Then we will do everything in
our power to find a better housing situation for these kids. Be it searching
for some family member willing to take in the child, or to transfer the child
to a better long term living arrangement. There are some good orphanages in
Uganda, not the ones being closed down for exploiting kids, not feeding them or
schooling them, but caring, committed, loving homes where kids grow up in as
close to a family atmosphere as possible. It’s just not ideal to place a child
in an orphanage. It’s not a real life experience like having someone to call
family, whether a grandmother or aunt. Mom or dad. And at least if no family
can be found or no orphanages available, we would then aim for adoption or
foster care. We hope by January our final paperwork is approved and we can take
in our first child. We have day and night volunteer caregivers hired and they
are willing and waiting to begin this work!
As far as what we still need for MMOCI and are
hoping that by the end of the year, is a decent stock of non-perishable food
saved up so we can deliver some meals to needy families before Christmas,
possibly purchase clothes, food or shoes for some kids, or just help a
struggling single mom provide for her kids. We are also trying to seek monetary
donations in general to assist the poor and needy in hospitals with medicine,
provide school fees for some kids (school starts the new term after the new
year and it’s stressful on families to carry the burden of coming up with
several children). Government schools
here are free but the education is substandard at best and conditions
deplorable.
To give your child a good education they must attend private owned schools. Per term fees for the finest primary school in this area can cost 400,000 uganda shillings (boarding), about $150 or 150,000 ugx-about $60 for non boarding. For a basic primary private school education runs about 50,000 ugx per term (non boarding)- about $20. There are 3 terms per year here. Each school has a different uniform dress code and color. Sort of like our parochial school uniforms. Sweaters, collared shirts, skirts, dresses or trousers (boys). This is an added expense for the parents per child separate from school fees. We hope one day to open a Christian school. There are many schools here but there are so many school age kids that classrooms are full and teachers few.
To give your child a good education they must attend private owned schools. Per term fees for the finest primary school in this area can cost 400,000 uganda shillings (boarding), about $150 or 150,000 ugx-about $60 for non boarding. For a basic primary private school education runs about 50,000 ugx per term (non boarding)- about $20. There are 3 terms per year here. Each school has a different uniform dress code and color. Sort of like our parochial school uniforms. Sweaters, collared shirts, skirts, dresses or trousers (boys). This is an added expense for the parents per child separate from school fees. We hope one day to open a Christian school. There are many schools here but there are so many school age kids that classrooms are full and teachers few.
Ugandans
are educated very well. They are challenged to learn and spend long hours
sitting in classes. They start early (7 am) and go late. I see high school kids
walking home from school as late as 6pm or 7pm at night when it’s nearly dark.
I think then to myself will they spend the evening at home doing homework by
candle light or are they blessed to have electricity? Life is hard for Africans
at any age. Yet they take it all in stride and don’t complain. Hard work or
not, life goes on and it’s just the way it is. Maybe when it’s all you’ve ever
known and have nothing to compare it to it doesn’t seem hard. But to this
spoiled American who never had to get up and do chores or walk miles for water
before school, I have high respect for these kids. I see where adult Ugandan’s
resilience and hard work ethics come from. Right from birth. God bless them.
Anyway,
back to my end of the year request…… (and thanks for reading this far). We
would like to humble appeal to you our family friends and supporters. This time
of year in the U.S. is about giving, sharing and thanksgiving. I for one am
grateful for being born in a privileged country with free solid education,
dependable electricity, prepared food (God I miss it! Lol) and so many more
conveniences that make life easy. Now that I wash every item of clothing I own
by hand using water I collected from the rain in barrel, I think why did I ever
complain about carrying a load of laundry to the washing machine, dumping it
all in and pressing the on button? Why
did I complain I had to light the 4 burner stove or whine that the oven is
taking to long to reach 350 degrees? And when I thought I was poor? Naw, I was
blessed beyond belief.
So
I humbly ask you, for the price of what
you would spend on a present that may be quickly forgotten (or re-gifted
God-forbid! Lol) would you consider giving a gift of a small amount to make the
difference for one child, one family, one person. Because your gift in their
honor can transform a life and create the beginning of a solution. When you
believe in someone enough to give them a hand up, (not a hand out!) then it’s
one step closer to alleviating poverty in this world. Our hearts chose Uganda
to be the starting point. Would you consider helping us this season? If so, we
will make sure every donation will go to where it’s most needed (and we know
many right now who need help!) We will bypass any administrative costs and pass
it directly on. We have a friend who took in a homeless baby (her mother left
her) and he needs help for her. She is 2 but wears like 12 month old baby
clothes. We have 10 kids we are looking for sponsors for, 7 children and 3
young adults. The younger kids need school fees and a few need medicine. (Two
HIV + and one with Psoriasis). Some are listed with photos and details at http://manymansions11.wix.com/many-mansions-11#!mmoci-kids/clci
We
currently can only accept Money Gram or Western Union. (there is no Paypal here
in Africa or I promise you I would make it as easy as possible cuz I have one)
CVS pharmacies (red phone) and Walmart (fill the paper to ‘send money’) have
Money Gram and Western Union is at Rite
Aid and Kmart. We would need the money gram sent in the name of Many Mansions
of Christ Co-founder/Director- “Stephen Okumu, Mityana Uganda” (not the title
too, just his name) and if Western Union the same name/city/country, though if
you use a test question and answer on the application we will need the exact
question/answer as written as well as the MTCN number. It’s nearly impossible
to cash a U.S. check here. It takes months. Sigh. So again, we humbly appeal
for donations. In Jesus name and for His glory ONLY do we want to make this holiday season special
for hopefully many!! God bless you all and have a very happy and blessed
Thanksgiving and a Merry Christmas!!
(How
Ugandans decorate their Christmas trees) Please don’t let Christmas be just
another day of surviving but one of joy, happiness and celebration! Praise God!
Sincerely, Cheryl and Stephen
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